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Jau seniai esate įžengusi į ketvirtą dešimtį, tačiau vis dar vaikštote į pasimatymus? Niekaip nesiseka rasti to vienintelio? Manote, kad jums tiesiog nesiseka meilėje? O gal sėkmė čia niekuo dėta?

Rimtų pažinčių svetainė DarniPora.lt pastebi kelias priežastis, kodėl kai kurios moterys pradeda santykius su tais vyrais, kurie nė negalvoja apie rimtus santykius. Žinoma, tokie romanai dažniausiai baigiasi nutrūkusiais santykiais ir sudaužytomis širdimis.

Greitai įsimylite ir skubate įsipareigoti. Vakar susipažinote, o šiandien jau kalbatės apie ateities planus? Tikimybė užmegzti santykius su netinkamu vyru labai padidėja, jei esate linkusi skubėti meilėje. Atminkite, kad laikas yra jūsų sąjungininkas, tad neverta stačia galva nerti į santykius, net jei naujasis draugas jums labai patinka. Suteikite laiko jums abiem vienas kitą pažinti ir pradėkite rimtesnius santykius tik tuomet, kai įsitikinsite, kad jis yra būtent toks žmogus, kokio ir ieškojote.

Gyvenate praeitimi. Praeities nereikia pamiršti, tačiau laimingiausi tie žmonės, kurie gyvena šia diena ir planuoja ateitį. Ši taisyklė galioja ir kalbant apie santykius. Na, galbūt nesąmoningai lyginate visus potencialius partnerius su savo buvusiuoju, ir nieko čia nepadarysi. Tačiau jei nenorite kartoti klaidų, turite iš esmės pakeisti taktiką. Pagalvokite, kodėl iki šiol jūsų santykiai nesusiklostydavo? Galbūt reikėtų iš naujo apsvarstyti, kokio vyro ieškote, ir, atsižvelgiant į tai, atitinkamai keisti elgesį – galbūt gyvenimo draugo ieškote ten, kur jūsų idealas niekada nesilankytų…

Nežinote, kokia esate nuostabi. Nepasitikėjimas savimi yra vienas iš būdo bruožų, kuris vienija nuolat santykiais nusiviliančias moteris. O ar jūs pakankamai pasitikite savimi? Ką galite padaryti, kad sustiprintumėte šį pasitikėjimą? Galbūt verta labiau rūpintis savimi ir kartais nepagailėti pinigų jūsų išsvajotai suknelei ar kitaip save palepinti. Juk esate graži ir nuostabi moteris, kuri verta sutikti tokį patį nuostabų vyrą!

Nežinote, kokio vyro ieškote. Jei nežinote, ko ieškote, kaip galite rasti? Žinoma, tuomet nenuostabu, kodėl puolate į pirmo pasitaikiusio vyro glėbį. Pagalvokite, kokie vyrai jums patinka, kokių savybių turėtų turėti jūsų gyvenimo vyras, su kokiu vyru galėtumėte praleisti visą gyvenimą. Kai su kuo nors susipažinsite, pagalvokite, ar šis vyras bent iš dalies atitinka jūsų ieškomo vyro paveikslą. Jei ne, negaiškite laiko – nė nepastebėsite, kaip įsimylėsite, o jei jūs vienas kitam netinkate, santykiai anksčiau ar vėliau nutrūks.

Įtikinote save, kad to, ko ieškote, niekada nerasite… Na, gali būti ir taip, kad puikiai žinote, ko ieškote, tačiau esate įsitikinusi, kad tokio vyro niekada nerasite, nes visi geri vyrai jau yra vedę ar turi drauges. Šitaip manydama tik žlugdote savo gyvenimą. Patikėkite, gerų vienišų vyrų tikrai yra, jūs tiesiog iki šiol dar nesutikote sau skirto.

Vis dar nepamiršote senų nuoskaudų. Žinoma, po kiekvienų nepavykusių santykių lieka nuoskaudų ir skaudžių išgyvenimų, tačiau jų nepamirštama užkertate kelią harmoningiems ilgalaikiams santykiams. Turėtumėte išmokti atleisti visas skriaudas buvusiems partneriams, tuomet gyventi taps lengviau. Bus sunku rasti tinkamą vyrą, jei visiems potencialiems partneriams jau per pirmą pasimatymą kartosite, kad visi vyrai vienodi.

Manote, kad galite jį pakeisti. Negalvokite, kad turite galią ar teisę keisti kitus žmones. Kiekvienas suaugęs žmogus pats renkasi, koks jis nori būti ir ko nori iš gyvenimo. Jei pastebite, kad naujasis draugas turi tokių savybių, su kuriomis tikrai negalėsite susitaikyti, negaiškite laiko. Rimtus santykius pradėkite tik su tokiu žmogumi, su kuriuo jums gera drauge ir kuris jums patinka tos, koks yra su visais savo minusais ir pliusais.

Per daug tikitės. Klystate, jei manote, kad jūsų gyvenimo draugas turi išspręsti visas jūsų problemas. Kažin, ar verta laukti riterio ant balto žirgo, kuris sutvarkytų jūsų gyvenimą už jus. Ieškokite sielos draugo, gyvenimo pakeleivio, su kuriuo galėtume smagiai leisti laiką, kuris jus suprastų ir palaikytų.


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2019-12-30, 07:24
i couldn't believe that i would ever be re-unite with my ex-lover, i was so traumatize staying all alone with no body to stay by me and to be with me, but i was so lucky one certain day to meet this powerful spell caster Dr Akhere,after telling him about my situation he did everything humanly possible to see that my lover come back to me,indeed after casting the spell my ex-lover came back to me less than 48 hours,my ex-lover came back begging me that he will never leave me again,3 months later we got engaged and married,if you are having this same situation just contact Dr Akhere on his email: [email protected] thanks very much sir for restoring my ex-lover back to me,his email: [email protected] or call/whatsapp:+2349057261346


























hindi ako makapaniwala na kailanman ay muling makiisa ako sa aking kasintahan, labis akong na-trauma sa pananatiling nag-iisa na walang katawan na manatili sa akin at makakasama ko, ngunit napakasuwerte ako sa isang tiyak na araw upang matugunan ito malakas na spell caster na si Dr Akhere, matapos sabihin sa kanya ang tungkol sa aking sitwasyon ginawa niya ang lahat ng makataong posible upang makita na ang aking kasintahan ay bumalik sa akin, sa katunayan matapos na ihagis ang spell ang aking dating kasintahan ay bumalik sa akin ng mas mababa sa 48 oras, dumating ang dating kasintahan ko. bumalik sa pagmamakaawa sa akin na hindi na niya ako pababayaan, 3 buwan mamaya kami ay nakipag-ugnay at nag-asawa, kung nagkakaroon ka ng parehong sitwasyong ito makipag-ugnay lamang kay Dr Akhere sa kanyang email: [email protected] maraming salamat sa sir sa pagpapanumbalik ng aking dating kasintahan bumalik sa akin, ang kanyang email: [email protected] o tumawag / whatsapp: +2349057261346
NORAH PEDRO
2019-12-19, 14:01
I just lost my man about three months ago though he is back again full of love and passion with the help of great man Dr IKHIDE. i NORAH PEDRO from Norway, have been into relationship with daniel moork since i was 22 years old and i am 28 now. i so much love him but i could not show the love, it was very difficult for me to prove my realness to him because i thought proving my love to him might make him look down on me and go after other girls. for over six years Daniel have give me all that i ask of him. i was always threaten him with break up each time i want to see his level of love for me because i was told if i threaten him, he will propose to me and then will get married to him before i can show my love despite his complains of him not sure of my love i was respond to him with negative words. though i was suspecting he have another girl in his life, i did not border to ask him about that because i was so sure of his love despite my attitude. on the 8th of September a day to my birthday he came and gave me so many lovely gift like never before claiming to wish me a happy birthday in advance with his words and behavior i expected him to propose to me on my birthday night then i will also tell him of my pregnant for him. i wait for him on my birthday he did not show up not even a call, i tried his number and it was not going through i refuse to go check on him because the anger in me six days later i went to his house and i found nothing not even a sign of my Daniel once live there. i was disappointed, frustrated, confuse with so many thought on my mind like hang my self if i did not see him again because i can not my parent about the pregnancy when the man responsible for it had disappear. our religion it's against that, my family will be disappointed in me, i have brought them shame. i look for daniel every where till i could chart with him on social network, he warned me never to disturb him again because he already had find another girl that he want to live his life with, after a while he block me from all access then i could not tell him of my pregnancy for him. so, i needed a help from all corners of life, i decide to check google my self or read some write up on site on how to coup with my pain because i could not tell any body about it not even my friends were aware of my pregnancy. i keep reading to cancel my self till i find how Dr IKHIDE help so many persons from different walls of life with their testimonies. then i decide to also contact him with [email protected] Because i do not know much about contacting a spell caster, i was not sure he can bring my Dan back but i decide to give him a try though his requirement was another problem i meet with a friend for help because i could not the items that he needed i have to plead with Dr IKHIDE to help me get the items because really need my man back to take away my shame. just two days after i send him the requirement Daniel call me, plead for forgiveness. just yeterday he propose to me and i am so happy. you can also contact him with [email protected]
2019-11-26, 11:43
i am ERIC BRUNT by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage just because another Man had a spell on her and she left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address [email protected] have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a man had a spell on my wife and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my wife back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my wife. Thanks for helping me Dr Akhere contact him on email: [email protected]
or
call/whatsapp:+2349057261346










i am ERIC BRUNT by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage just because another Man had a spell on her and she left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address [email protected] have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a man had a spell on my wife and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my wife back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my wife. Thanks for helping me Dr Akhere contact him on email: [email protected]
or
call/whatsapp:+2349057261346
2019-11-26, 11:43
i am ERIC BRUNT by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage just because another Man had a spell on her and she left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address [email protected] have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a man had a spell on my wife and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my wife back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my wife. Thanks for helping me Dr Akhere contact him on email: [email protected]
or
call/whatsapp:+2349057261346










i am ERIC BRUNT by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage just because another Man had a spell on her and she left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address [email protected] have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a man had a spell on my wife and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my wife back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my wife. Thanks for helping me Dr Akhere contact him on email: [email protected]
or
call/whatsapp:+2349057261346
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